Soften Into Surrender

A 9-Week Journey of Surrender

A sensual, embodied experience in softening, opening, and receiving deep nourishment within our day to day lives.

You’ve held it all together for so long.

I used to think of surrender as a weakness.. As something you just don’t do, especially growing up as a queer Black woman.
To be Soft felt dangerous… and Surrendering felt like a loss of power.

There was a time when I didn’t know what safety felt like in my body.
I knew how to “put on” confidence… but not how to truly embody it.
I knew how to show up for others… but not how to show up for myself.

My life curriculum continued to present me with challenge after challenge… from unexpected shifts within my career,
to grieving the loss of my father, my unborn spirit baby, and many close loved ones... life seemed to be unraveling from the seams of my very being.

But something shifted.
Not overnight.
But slowly. Tenderly.
Through deep pause. Through art. Through nature. Through movement. Through sacred space. My body began to unwind.

Piece by piece, story by story, I softened.
My voice.. once locked behind layers of fear and trauma.. began to flow, wild and free.
I wept. I danced. I remembered.

Surrender transformed from a box to a door.
To expression.
To liberation.
To love.

In these spaces, I healed wounds I once buried in silence.
I rooted into Earth.
I played in the soft, sacred waters of my sensuality.
I opened my heart—not just to love, but to being love.

I SOFTENED..

And everything changed.

I moved through the world differently—with grace, with boldness, with a quiet confidence that was no longer performative… but an embodied truth.

As I surrendered to the flow, my perfectionist mind quieted.

My indecision became clear action.
My anxiety softened.
My channel opened.
I felt the divine pulsing through every strand of DNA.

Surrender, I realized, isn’t about giving up.
It’s about trusting deeply enough to let go.
To reclaim sovereignty.
To become porous to Spirit.
To come into harmony with something greater.

Life is a miracle… if you let it be.
A blessing… if you pause long enough to hear the wind whispering in the pockets of stillness.

And in that remembering, a fire awakened inside me. I became devoted to crafting spaces to help others open into their embodied sovereignty. Soften into Surrender was born from this spark.

This offering is not about bypassing the hard or dressing pain in pretty words.
It’s about creating a sanctuary where your body can exhale.
A space where surrender isn’t weakness… it’s wisdom.

Where healing isn’t performative… but a living prayer.
Where softening is a return, not a retreat.

This 9-week immersive series is an invitation into that exhale. We’ll explore the tender terrain of trust—through breath, somatic movement, reflection, sensual movement, and the sacred rhythm of your own unfolding.
Together, we’ll remember what it means to listen.
To reclaim.
To ground.
To rest.
To allow.
To integrate.
To soften not as an escape, but as a pathway home to your truest self.

I know this version of you exists… the one who walks with grace, speaks with clarity, and feels deeply rooted in their truth.
It is real, and this version of you is waiting with open arms.

What to Expect:

We'll gather virtually Thursdays at 5:30p PST / 8:30p EST beginning May 22nd, going through mid July.

Each week, we’ll explore our bodies through the lens of the chakras, gently unraveling what keeps us guarded and discovering the aliveness that comes with surrender. Our sessions will include:

• Breathwork Practices

• Yin Yoga & Somatic Movement

• Both Guided & Intuitive Sensual Movement Invitations

• Mantras & Sound Activation

• Reclaiming Play & Inner Child Healing

• Journaling & Integration Practices

• Weekly Telegram Support + Community Space

The Weekly Flow:

• Week 1: Foundations of Softening

• Week 2: Root Chakra – Safety in Softness

• Week 3: Sacral Chakra – Pleasure & Flow

• Week 4: Naval Chakra – The Power of Vulnerability

• Week 5: Heart Chakra – Unarmored Love

• Week 6: Throat Chakra – The Sacred Voice

• Week 7: Third Eye Chakra – Inner Knowing & Soft Focus

• Week 8: Crown Chakra – Surrendering to the Flow

• Week 9: Integration & Closing Call

I’ve been there too..

I know the weight of holding it all together because I’ve lived it. From childhood wounds and deep betrayals to heartbreak, injury, and navigating the demands of high-pressure careers, life has given me every reason to harden. But through movement, breath, supportive community, and deep surrender, I found a path back to my body—a path that has allowed me to soften without losing my strength, to feel deeply without being consumed. This journey is one I’ve walked, and now, I invite you to walk it with me.

This is for you if…

• You feel like you’ve been in “survival mode” for far too long—and your body is craving softness, rest, and tenderness.

• You’re yearning to reconnect to your sensuality in a safe, loving way—on your own terms.

• You’ve been carrying the weight of being “strong” for everyone else and you’re ready to be held.

• You desire more pleasure, play, and erotic aliveness in your daily life.

• You’ve struggled to feel at home in your body after trauma, heartbreak, or burnout—and you’re ready to take gentle steps back into intimacy with yourself.

• You’re interested in exploring embodiment, energy, and movement as a healing and spiritual practice.

• You’re in a season of transition—emotionally, spiritually, or physically—and want a supportive container to guide your next chapter.

• You’ve been curious about chakras or somatic healing, but haven’t found an approach that feels grounded, inclusive, and trauma-sensitive.

• You crave community—being witnessed, seen, and supported by others who are also on a path of softening.

Your Investment

$999 PIF or four monthly payments of $277

Your Philanthropic Investment

By you investing in yourself for 9 weeks of deepening, healing, and expanding you’re also helping someone else. 11% of all payments are donated to The Love Land Foundation. They’re a beautiful organization with the mission to help bring opportunity and healing to communities of color. You can learn more about the foundation HERE.

I Need This AND Need a Little Extra Support..…

For my POC and Queer folks please submit this form (this work often is out of reach for POC, Queer and Trans folks and it feels important to offer additional support to help make this work more accessible. So if this is you, I’m here to love on you and meet you where you are)

I’ve opened 2 partial scholarship spots and 1 full ride scholarship - please fill out the below if you would like to be considered

Are you ready to soften into the fullness of your being?

Doors are open to step into this sacred container. Join us, and let’s unravel, breathe, and flow together.